Someone on youtube post a comment on this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwGy367Pf…
This is what the person said:
“A man and woman should get married only to make children not because they loved each other or liked each other. Though it would be a plus.”
Do you agree with this?
If this is the case, then I can clearly see why there is so many divorces….

My family has several issues. My mom & dad split when I was 2. They officially got divorced when I was 4. My Dad is an alcoholic. My sister doesn’t speak to him, and his mom and sister refer to him as “evil” or “sh*t.” My dad isn’t this. Despite all of his problems, he is caring, smart, and has a kind heart. I love him so much. He had a hard childhood. He lost his father at 19 from cancer and lived in poverty. His parents were also alcoholics, so that probably just came naturally to him. He also had to deal with a teen pregnancy. After him and my mom split he lived in different hotels. He moved away to Oklahoma for a job when I was 8. He then got ill, and almost died, so he moved to be with his family in New Mexico. (He’s Italian, btw.) He remarried and stopped drinking. I got to visit him every six months. Then he started to forget about me & only pay attention to his new family. It turns out that the woman he married only married him to get her citizenship. His mom & sister pushed him away, but took in the woman. I started seeing him once a year. Then, he moved to Colorado to finish school and get a maintenance job at the airport, since South West’s base is in Denver. Nobody in my family ever looks at everything good he is. They always look at the bad. He’s a brilliant musician, and now has a stable job. I haven’t seen my dad in almost 2 years. I last saw him during the Summer of my fifth grade year. I’m going into eighth grade next year. I’m 13 now. I just hate that I’m not the same person that I was when I saw him last.. I’ve changed. And I can’t stand how people think I’m naive for still wanting to be with him, just because I decided to forgive all of his mistakes. I don’t know what to do. This distance and time away from my Dad is killing me. What should I do? Should I just give up on it all, or what? Why can’t- Why won’t people see what I see? Am I just too young or naive to understand? PLEASE HELP.

I’m 16 in year 11 and currently taking 5 university lead up courses in school- chemistry, English, maths, human bio, geography
I’m doing well in it, passing all my subjects. I have exams in 2 weeks and the only problem is my parents divorce is getting worse
Theyve been fighting for about 2 years, but it started getting so bad and serious a few months ago when my dad had a psycho fit at my sister, called her a fat s..l*ut and was threatening to bash her
My dads been present yet absent all my life, he’s been there just never showed he cared, I’ve never hugged him he’s never said happy birthday I love you or anything
I still loved him cause I just thought he had issues with that, until tonight my parents were screaming their heads off at each other
And I heard my dad say he didn’t want anything to do with his kids anymore, he wants us all to leave and get out of his life- and we have no idea why
He makes my mum cry every night I spend so many nights crying too, I cant concentrate on homework, studying lately. I’m staying home tomorrow because I need time to think cause in so emotionally exhausted from literally crying about this the whole night last night
I don’t want to see anyone or talk to teachers or anything cause I dont want my mum to know I’m so hurt by this- she already has too much to deal with
How can I concentrate? How can I stop crying? I try to study but just end up getting my text book all wet :/
Thank you so much..

I met my husband a year after I finished college 4 years ago, he is 8 years older than me and in his late 30′s and yet he is so immature and never takes anything seriously, it irritates me to death!! And because of it I feel I’m kind of not in love with him anymore, he never puts in any effort to help with things. He leaves things up to me to do, like he will notice were out of milk or something and he will send me a text message telling me to buy some more and never contributes with going to the grocey store to buy it himself.
He doesn’t clean up the house, leaves his work clothes and car magazines everywhere around the house leaving me to clean and pick everything up. His excuse is that he gets tired from work when I work as well and I still manage to find the energy to clean up after myself!! Its embarrassing because my mom has come over to visit once and she even told me our house is disgraceful and that she will feel sorry for our children and that we wont even be able to find them in the house because of all his crap (stacks of car magazines and things) and even had a few words to him about it but still he never listened.
I swear he hoardes all these magazines around. He always gets angry if Im trying to clean and pick up things and will tell me to relax whenever we have conversations but honestly I cant live like this anymore! I love him but i don’t know how to get him to change his messy ways? Is it silly to even consider divorcing him? i guess i shouldnt take him for granted because he does love me and is very caring but i just cant stand all the mess and crap!

I’m only fourteen, however I have a feeling that I am going through depression.
I’m young, I know. Age is but a number.
For my age, I’m pretty strange.
Hardly can I ever make friends because the people around me just seem so ignorant and obnoxious. This hasn’t just occurred either. This has been going on for as long as I can remember.
I am so self conscious that I can’t even look people in the eyes. When I do, I feel as if they find a million flaws. The same feeling occurs when I’m walking around school.
I actually have considered suicide. I don’t think I’ll ever do it, but I’ve thought about what it would be like.
I’ve always been very shy, so I’m easily ignored. When people do notice me they mistake me for something I’m not.
They talk about how sweet I am and all of these things that I truly am not. It’s almost like there’s a cage inside of my throat that are filled with the real me, threatening to spill out who I really am.
My sister is beautiful, and it really upsets me.
Also, I feel like such a failure.
I know that my mother doesn’t like me deep down. I’m not the child that she wanted. I’m not my sister.
I can’t help but get aggitated by everything and blurt out sarcastic comments. It pains me so much knowing how much I have hurt everyone in my life.
No one is there for me to talk to.
I had talked to my father before, but he and my mother have recently divorced and I hardly see him anymore. I’ve gotten all of my traits from him, and I feel that he’s the only one who can help me.
This is not hormones.
My dad never got over it, so why would I?
I cry almost everyday even for no reason.
It feels like I’m not a teenager. I’m just a ghost in a child’s body.
Nothing’s wrong, but everything is.
I had a boyfriend, but I ended up breaking up with him. I felt like such a burden on him that I didn’t want him to have to see my face anymore.
I try to focus on all of the food things, but I just can’t.
I don’t even want people hugging me.
What do I do?

go talk to a good lawyer …..

i am 23 years old and a west indian.i find this older woman at my college very attractive.she is about 40 and she is very short.she has short curly hair and big lips and slim.She is also hispanic. She is a security guard at my school were she does front desk work. I find her very attractive but I don’t know how to approach her. I know how to talk to her when I ask her questions about the school but I don’t know how too talk to her as if I am getting to know her. I don’t see any ring on her finger so she must be single or divorced. I just met her today and my heart already skipped a beat when I saw her eyes and the way she talks.How can I talk to her without be desperate or stalking?

In the United States, if the houses were purchased by each person prior to getting married, then they are not considered community property. if the houses were purchased after the marriage…no matter whos name is on the mortgage or deed, they are considered community property. these laws may not apply in the UK however.

I’m losing my Mom because of her boyfriend. She’s always at his house on the weekends and half the time during the week. I see her 5 minutes a day; everyday! And i’m only 14 years old.
When we do talk she’s telling me all about how I don’t love her.
I LOVE MY MOM.
I just stopped saying it when my parents go a divorced when I was around 7/8. I’ll say it once in awhile but I don’t much.
Days like Thursday, when she’s home, her boyfriends sleeping over here.
I just want to spend more than 5 minutes with my Mom and not with her boyfriend in the way.
We used to have ‘Mother-Daughter Days’ and now they’ve stopped.
She always told me I came first no matter what, but I guess she didn’t mean it.
We used to never keep secrets from each other, but now all she does is lie to me and I don’t get it.
She lied to me about smoking; I found her Cigarettes in the bathroom closet. Her past boyfriend and new boyfriend smoke so someone got her hooked on it.
She smokes in the bathroom, I can smell it.
I just wanna runaway knowing our Mother-Daughter relationship is ending.
I just need help on how I can get my Mom to listen to me?

When I was 16 I started dating a guy. I fell in love. My parents had problems so I moved in with him and his family. My dad divorced my mom and moved 800 miles away. When I was 18 I moved so I could live with my dad rent free and attend college. When I was 19, my boyfriend drove me down to where he lived so I could spend the summer with him, I got pregnant. I knew I wasn’t ready but I was happy.
Everyone else was not. My boyfriend started hitting me and he told his parents it wasn’t his. My mom gave me pills to “help” me miscarry. My dad told me he was going to give my car to my oldest sister. I had no job, and without a car I had no chance of getting one. I was 800 miles from home. But he didn’t want me there once he knew I was pregnant and my dad didn’t want me to come home until I aborted. My bf’s parents called me a liar, said I was a whore and that it wasn’t their grandson. EVERYONE IN MY FAMILY TURNED THEIR BACK ON ME. Now two of my sisters are pregnant. Neither married, neither finished college. I just got my degree and I know its bc of my decision but I would’ve rather been a mom any day. Haven’t had a period since my abortion, so Im infertile as I deserve to be. I think its because I moved too much during the procedure because nobody went with me so I couldn’t have medicine (you cant drive after taking the medicine). The whole thing kills me. Now, anytime I see those panels on ceilings that look like clouds I get chills. I think im severely depressed. Im not even happy for my sisters and Im beginning to hate the world. Its been over 2 years. I cant get past it. Cant even look at my family. This sounds so emo but I really don’t feel anymore, except when I think of how my kid would be… and how old it would be… and then I just cry. Everyone keeps posting sonograms on fb and I hate it. Im becoming such a hateful person. How do I forgive and just be happy? I dont care about forgiving myself, I never will. How do I forgive everyone else?